Help us to make amends where they need to be made. We need help. Its so hard to say we are sorry. It is so hard to let go of the outcome of a tense situation. Its so hard to make it right and trust that the other person will also come around. Hold us in that in between space; hold us as we step out of our comfort to make amends.
Help us to see the other person’s point of view, help us to have room in ourselves for those others, for their whole selves, even if they drive us bonkers.
Thank you for your welcome, your amends, your ability to always say the things that make us drop our anger, drop our reserves of righteousness and reach out to your own reaching out hand.